How To Neighbor “The Lonely Loved”
If you are a kid of the PBS era, you know the famous show Mr. Rogers Neighborhood and how he always sang “would you be, could you be, won’t you be my neighbor?” This always reminds me that each of us are built for relationships. When we say the word lonely…who does that bring to mind? Let’s hang on to that image. Maybe you went to how many “friends” or “follows” you have on Social Media. Does the one with the most “friends” and “follows” live a life that’s the least lonely? What if there were actually more lonely people in the world than you realized. What can we do to help those who, more often than not without our knowledge, are lonely…just looking for their neighbor?
Genesis 2:20-25 Matthew 8:1-4
How do we love the lonely?
- Love with TOUCH
- The First thing God saw He didn’t like in the world He created was loneliness. Just like God touched Adam to help him in his loneliness with Eve, Jesus did the same and touched a Leper to not only heal his physical pain, heal his spiritual pain…but also his pain of being rejected his whole life.
- We often can’t see just how lonely someone is until we honestly hug then, shake their hand or lock arms with them in prayer. Jesus uses those moments for healing more than we could ever know.
- Love by LISTENING
- I wonder how many times Adam didn’t realize how lonely he had become doing the work in the garden? Then he started speaking to God about his loneliness as it grew! Same with Jesus and the Leper…this man that everyone ran from Jesus stopped and listened to.
- Take a moment and grasp that. Just listening to someone can remind them that they aren’t alone! To “listen” requires you to be “silent”…same letters that go hand & hand together with two separate words!
- Love with TIME
- Adam and God spent time together daily (we can see this evidence in Genesis 3 with the fall of man & God seeking Adam). God spent time with him to know how he felt…how his loneliness felt. Same with Jesus and the Leper…he took a moment with him. Jesus could have just said “you are healed” and the Leper would have been good…but instead He stopped what He was doing, listened to the Leper’s question, and touched him to be healed. Then He tells the Leper to continue spending time with God by obeying the law.
- When we spend time with others, we can help them overcome their loneliness. They know that they aren’t alone in whatever they face.
In a nutshell the Gospel is all about eliminating loneliness. If we look at Genesis, loneliness is the first thing God said was bad in the world…and God not only offered a way for us to not be lonely on this earth, but not to be lonely for eternity through Jesus! With Christ we are all family and don’t have to be lonely ever again!
Take Away:
Do you ever feel lonely? How will you invite people into your life?
Time, listening, and touch. Which of these three can you get better at giving? To whom?
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