My Story: I Decided To Go

My Story “I Decided to Go”

This is it! The culmination of the My Story Series! The place we all want to get to! The place to GO where God is calling us to go! But let’s not miss out on the fact that to get to this point we have had to know the small step God is calling us to start taking, the steps away from what is stopping us to be all God is calling us to, the patience of staying where God is calling us to stay…have all lead up to where we can step into all God is calling us to go into!

1 Samuel14:1-23

Where is God Calling Me To Go?

  • Your Best DECISION will be to GO where GOD IS CALLING you to when it’s EASIER TO STAY!
    • This is a battle with the Philistines! A battle that leads up to the famous battle we know with David and Goliath! Saul’s true character is revealed here as he sits and stays (he does the same when Goliath comes knocking in 1 Samuel 17)
    • Jonathan knows God has called him to something that requires him not to stay in comfort…but to GO in faith! To follow Jesus is to always be comfortable getting uncomfortable!
    • Jonathan’s faith to go even when he couldn’t see the outcome is exactly what God is calling us to when He calls us to go!
      • He doesn’t call us to: Quit your job without a plan, leave your marriage or to recklessly give away all our finances without His calling! He’s just asking us to be obedient to go where He has called us to!
  • So Why Don’t We Go?
    • FEAR OF FAILURE ; RIDICULE ; I’LL DO IT LATER ; COMFORT
    • We can see Jonathan was anything but comfortable! He had to dig on his hands and his knees to climb up slippery slope just to get to the enemy God was calling him to go to!
      • Many times in our walk God has to do this to us! Not to make us feel weak but to show us that in His power alone, when He calls us to go He will defeat all that comes against us.
  • By FAITH I Decided to GO…or by FEAR I decided to STAY!
    • It always comes down to fear or faith! Whichever you feed grows! Fear can actually keep us in a comfortable state…but faith can take us where God wants us to go & be a part of the blessing He wants us to receive!
    • Jesus had to step out in faith and GO! He came down to earth to be our Savior, He stayed with His family for 30 years and could have been comfortable as a carpenter but instead chose to invest in 12 never-heard-ofs to be the building blocks of The Church, and then ultimately He decided to Go to the Cross when He could have been comfortable in the Garden…but the most important that Jesus has decided to go was that He decided to GO before us. If we just have faith…Oh The Places We Will Go! Trust His Promise!

Take Away:
Living a BIG Faith Filled Life starts with small next steps in Christ!  What Next Steps can you take:
What Does God Want for Your Life (Look at Galatians 5:22-26)?
What Faith Filled Step To Go  Do You Need To Take Today?

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My Story: I Decided To Stay

My Story “I Decided to Stay”

This week we dive into one of the hardest parts of our story. When to decide to stay. We’ve been referencing the bike all through this series. How the bike gives us freedom…gives us the ability to stop. But how much does that bike give us the freedom to run when God is calling us to stay!

Hosea 1-3 Mark 5:1-20

Is God Calling Me To Stay?

  • Your Most DIFFICULT DECISION Will Be TO STAY Where God is Calling You when YOU WANT TO GO!
    • Hosea’s story is one of the most beautiful representations of the Gospel! Hosea is God and we are Gomer! He decided to pay a price for what He had already created…He paid a price for what was already His…think about that? Yet, through all of that He still loves us enough to stay with us, clothe us in His Righteousness and Call Us His!
    • In our own story we can see where we are like Gomer…willing to run back to what satisfies immediately and not face the difficult task of staying. Yet, we look at Hosea and stayed as God called him too!
    • Like the Demon Possessed Man we can see what we miss out on by going instead of staying where Jesus has called us to! If the man had gone…the entire Decapolis (10 cities) would not know who Jesus from the man’s testimony!
      ***I’m not suggesting to stay in an abusive situation! God has not called you stay there…but to only forgive and step forward. If you need help let someone know today.***When is a time in your life you stayed when it was easier to go? What did you learn through it?

   

    Based on your experiences in life what how do you determine when to stay or go?

 

Take Away:
Living a BIG Faith Filled Life starts with small next steps in Christ!  What Next Steps can you take:
What Does God Want for Your Life (Look at Galatians 5:22-26)?

Where in life might God be calling you to stay? What’s your next step?

 

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My Story: I Decided To Stop

My Story “I Decided to Stop”

Last week we discussed “I Decided to Start” and how like riding a bicycle when we start peddling we start to go places. The freedom that comes from just starting the journey is so beautiful! With that freedom can come some temptations though right? Like not going to the place that your parents told you not to with your bike! It was so close & so fun, but you were so blind to the dangers of it! Following Jesus is the same! He rewards our obedience, and even though the thing we want to isn’t “that bad”, it still can cost more than we know! David faced some similar battles in his lifetime!

1 Chronicles 21 Galatians 5:22-26

Ask Yourself “If I continue this direction, how will this story end?”

  • YOU don’t know what YOU’RE MISSING if YOU STOP! (1 Chronicles 21:1-6)
    • It wasn’t the fact that David counted the army…it’s that he let Satan tempt him to do it and he followed through. This is what sin does to each of us! Counting an army isn’t hurting anyone right? Well as we see later it actually does!
    • What are the things in your life you are doing that seem to not harm any one but aren’t what Jesus is calling you to do?What are you missing out on by continuing to do them?
  • YOU don’t know what it WILL COST if YOU DON’T! (1 Chronicles 21:7-30)
    • Once David Realized He sinned…he did the right thing—Repented! Yet, he still had to deal with the Consequences of his sin. And like always, sin doesn’t just affect us…it effects those around us (many times unsuspectingly). 70,000 men died due to David’s sin (2 Samuel 24:15)
    • In your story where can you see that not listening to Jesus and doing what He says has cost you? Did it just affect you?

 

 

Take Away:
Living a BIG Faith Filled Life starts with small next steps in Christ!  What Next Steps can you take:
What Does God Want for Your Life (Look at Galatians 5:22-26)?

 

What is getting in the way of what God Wants for your Life? What will you decide to Stop (play each decision without Jesus forward)?

 

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My Story: I Decided To Start

My Story “I Decided to Start”

Remember when you got your first bike? How scary was it when you first got your training wheels off? But then…you started peddling! The balance came, the falls happened, the bruises, scrapes & scars are all great story tellers and the Long Summer Days of Childhood just wouldn’t be the same without this thing called a bicycle! But remember what you learned most about the bike…the freedom that came from starting to peddle! Isn’t that true about our story? Our walk with Christ? Often the thing that brings us the most freedom is the one small step we start to take today! The decisions we decide to start today are the ones that shape tomorrow!

Judges 6:1-12 Titus 3:3-8 Galatians 5:22-26

Today…Do You Live a Story Worth Telling?

What’s your Jesus story?

 

 

Where has Jesus shown up in your life in the past year? Where Does it Seem Like He’s Missing? (Look at Titus 3:3-8)

 

 

What Does God Want for Your Life (Look at Galatians 5:22-26)?

 

 

What Does God want you to want?

 

 

Knowing what God wants you to want…what step is God calling you to start taking today?
(Look at Judges 6:1-11 You are a mighty Warrior…you can take that step)

 

 

Take Away:
Living a BIG Faith Filled Life Starts with taking a small next step in Christ! As you have dug in to the questions above, take that small step today that will lead to freedom for years to come!
Write Your Next Step Down Below:

Breaks Bread

Love Like Jesus #3 “Breaks Bread”

Ever just feel isolated? Like Castaway with Wilson Isolated? It’s a miserable place to be isn’t it? It’s like the whole weight of the world falls on your shoulders! It often leaves you feeling hopeless, helpless and without worth! God knew that we would get this way when He created us…so He’s constantly been with us so that in Him we have hope, strength and worth! From The Garden of Eden God has been pursuing community with us! And what better picture than to see what Jesus shows good community to look like?

John 15:1-17  Luke 22:20-34

Why is Christian Community Important?

Community                                                   No Community
Prunes (John 15:1)                                      Thrown Away (John 15:6)
Nurtures (John 15:9)                                   Withers (John 15:6)
Multiplies (John 15:5,16)                            Burned (John 15:6)
Invites & Invests (John 15:10-12)              Isolates & Consumes (John 15:18-25)

How Do I know if I’m In Good Christian Community?

  1. I meet regularly with a committed group of people
  2. I am challenged to take next steps in Christ with a committed group of people
  3. I regularly take next steps in Christ with a committed group of people (better than when I started)
  4. I am real with a committed group of people…they know my secret & they still believe the best in me
  5. I serve with a committed group of people and make an impact greater than myself alone
  6. I invite others in that don’t look like me, talk like me, or walk like me…but are worth the connection

Let’s Look at Jesus at the Passover Supper (Communion) Luke 22:20-34

  • Jesus knew His best friends were about to betray, deny and abandon Him–He still decides to break bread with them one last time before He goes to the Cross.
  • In truth Jesus tells the Disciples what they will do & yet challenges them to their next step in building the Church. He even tells them to shed Satan’s attempts to bring them away.
  • He spent His ministry outside of the Temple with people who didn’t look like, talk like or even walk like Him…yet He still invites us all in!
  • He reminds them that what they are doing is bigger than this moment…it’s for eternity

Take Away:
What are you doing right now that’s causing relationships to deepen? What are you doing that’s keeping them from deepening?

 

What are some things you do instead of spending time in community? Are they worth it?

 

Who do you know who’s lacking community? How can we help others to find community?

 

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Washes Feet

Love Like Jesus Week #2

Certain things gross me out—not washing your hands in the bathroom, or touching food without washing your hands, pet hair in the food you cook. If I could widdle it down to one thing…when you’re with me please wash your hands. And spit on the Birthday Cake from “blowing out the Candles”…leaves me praying for the Rapture :D! Yet if it’s someone I love, it doesn’t cross my mind! If we are totally honest, we will do some pretty gross things for those we love (parents changing a diaper is such a good example of getting dirty for those we love)! Jesus was no different! Enter the Passover Feast with His best friends…then He does the weirdest thing—He washes their feet!

John 13:1-17  Luke 22:7-28

Jesus Washed their Feet To Show:

  1. It’s NOT ABOUT ME
    • Imagine being Jesus here…you are about to go to the Cross, you’re with your best friends and instead of cherishing the last few moments with you…they fight over who is going to be the greatest Luke 22:24
    • So Jesus steps in, puts a towel on His waist on washes the Disciples feet John 13:4-5
    • Jesus steps up and says “I’ve got this…I’m not only going to tell them to serve, I’m going to show them”.
  2. I’m NOT AFRAID of Your MESS John 13:6-12
    • Jesus knew His friends were about to betray, deny and abandon Him & His last act wasn’t how to get even…instead He came down to them, met them right where they were and cleaned once of the messiest (grossest) parts of the human body.
    • The significance of washing feet in the Jewish culture was that when guests came to your house for a meal, a servant would wash their feet before they enjoyed the meal. For Levite Priests, they had to clean themselves before they could go to the Altar of Burnt Offering (so they had to be clean before they could partake in keeping others clean…don’t miss that!)
    • I imagine Jesus was praying for each one of them as He washed their feet! How powerful that a King would humble Himself to come down to meet us in the midst of our nastiest mess. What if Jesus was cleaning their feet to prepare them for their next step?
  3. SERVING Is How You SHOW ME To The WORLD John 13:13-17 Luke 22:25-28
    • When Jesus explains He explains that when we want to truly show Him to the world we serve. He explains He came here to serve…not to be served!
    • Want to make your life better? SERVE, Want to make your marriage better? SERVE,
      Want to make your business better? SERVE, Want to make your family life better? SERVE
      Want to Change the World for Eternity’s Sake? SERVE

Take Away:
Compare times in your life where you’ve been more and less involved in service. What patterns do you notice?

 

Who has Jesus placed in your life that He’s called you to serve regardless of the mess? What steps can you take to serve them this week?

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Forgives

Love Like Jesus #1 “Forgives”

If we are truly honest there are some things in our lives that make us just a little upset…and other things that send us through the roof with anger. The emotions are rising up in us as we think about them right now. Many of us can say those emotions and anger come from abuse, neglect, betrayal. I mean how could we ever forgive someone who did that us? When we don’t forgive it’s like driving down the interstate with our emergency brake on…yeah we may get to where we need to be but it’s going to take a lot longer & involve a lot of frustration! When we love like Jesus, we are compelled to forgive because we were first forgiven.

Facts about Forgiveness:

  1. FORGIVEN People FORGIVE People Matthew 18:21-22 ; Colossians 3:13
    • SEVEN is the number of Completion in the Bible! So Jesus not only told Peter to forgive completely…He said to forgive continually
    • Forgiveness is not a one time decision…it’s a choice made daily
    • Forgiveness can not be earned but only received! Only you can forgive…that thing/person isn’t going to ask you for forgiveness, you have to make the choice to forgive them
  2. FORGIVENESS is the KEY TO FREEDOM Matthew 18:23-27 ; Matthew 6:14-15
    • We seek fairness we want revenge to those who hurt us! We’ve played out many scenarios in our heads where those who have done us harm get payback…but the Fair is where we ride rides—not so with our God! If our God was fair none of us would have a chance at a relationship with Him, because none of us in fairness deserve it.
    • The debt mentioned in this passage is equal to 200,000 years of labor (a denari, or bag of gold, is worth 20 years a day laborers salary). HUGE Debt that was amassed!
    • In this part of the story, if we have a relationship with Jesus, we are the servant who gets a debt he could never fully repay cancelled. If we don’t have a relationship with Jesus we are the servant trying in our power to pay off a debt we never could without the help of the Master.
    • When we forgive others we set ourselves and them free. Imagine what life is like not having to prove anything, but getting to live in all that Jesus made you to be—that’s FREEDOM!
  3. FORGIVENESS always bears FRUIT Matthew 18:28-35 ; Luke 23:34
    • The story takes a strange turn…when the one who has been forgiven refuses to forgive others he is put in a prison with a penalty he could never repay on his own. His freedom is gone. Unforgiveness = Unfruitfulness
    • Jesus knows what it’s like to be Betrayed (The Last Supper), Abandoned (The Garden of Gethsemane), Denied (Peter at His trial) and still had to look on as the hands He made slapped Him, Mocked Him, Spit on Him and hung Him on a Cross to die a Sinner’s Death! Yet through all of that Jesus still says “Father Forgive Them”. He then still loved us enough to not stay dead but leave an empty tomb so that we can have life.
    • I know what you are going through still hurts, and the pain is unbearable…give it to Jesus and let Him work through it in you. The First step is accepting Jesus’ forgiveness for you, forgiving those that have hurt you and keeping your eyes on Jesus

Take Away:
Have you ever received unexpected forgiveness? What was that like?

 

Is there anyone you still need to forgive? How will you take action instead of waiting for your feelings to change?

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I’m Confident

Stay Positive #5 “I’m Confident”

Think back to when you were small! Wasn’t great believing you could fly? And then…Middle School (or High School or College for some)…something happened! The confidence faded as our insecurities grew! Little do we know that our insecurities keep us from following dreams! When we come to the moment that it isn’t our personal confidence but God confidence to live out immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine we flip the board and step right into all God made us to be!

How To Live With God Confidence! Realize:

  1. I Am LOVED John 3:16
    • God is Love! The Bible from Genesis to Revelations show us of God’s Love for us
    • Often we get stuck believing this because we see our circumstance and how we measure up to man instead of who God sees us to be!
  2. I Am CHILD OF THE KING Romans 8:15
    • Jesus didn’t just come to die for our sins, rise on the 3rd and then leave us! He instead came to earth to allow us to be a part of the Family in Heaven (Any one else remember the old Hymn “I’m so glad I’m a part of the Family of God” :D)
    • Through Christ alone we are adopted into the Family! No matter what circumstance you walk through today that has you feeling all by yourself, know if Christ we are never alone.
  3. I Am BLESSED Genesis 15:1-6 ; Jeremiah 29:11
    • In Christ we are promised a hope and a future! Even when we can’t see it…if there is a beat in our heart and breath in our lungs the Best Is Still Yet To Come (trust…I’ve read what the end looks like and it all works out for those in Christ)
    • When we see ourselves as the blessing God works through to be a blessing to others…that’s when our eyes are opened to see that we are truly blessed!
  4. I Am CALLED and EQUIPPED Exodus 4:1-17
    • What God calls us to…no matter how overwhelming, or even unrealistic, to our eyes He puts what we need right in our hands at just the right time. We have to believe that He who called us to it will see us through it…and His will is His Bill!
    • There is so much freedom in knowing this because it takes the weight of provision off of our shoulders and puts directly into God’s!

Take Away:
What Do You See When You Look In The Mirror Every Day? Can You Look In The Mirror and say with confidence these 4 things?

 

Challenge:
Look in the Mirror Every Day and Say With God Confidence These 4 Things!
Fight hard to go 3 days straight without a negative thought!
***If you get a negative thought you restart trying for 3 days straight!

I’m Enthusiastic

Stay Positive #4 “I’m Enthusiastic”

We got to started looking at staying positive with Optimism! It’s easy to get optimism confused with enthusiasm! Enthusiasm means “in God”! Optimism is a frame of reference and Enthusiasm is a way of life. We can be optimistic without being enthusiastic but we can’t be enthusiastic without having an optimistic overflow! Enthusiasm flows from a relationship with Christ!

How to live Enthusiastically!

  1. TRUST God!
    • Nehemiah 1:1-4; Nehemiah 2:1-9
    • What makes us weep is often the exact thing God is calling us to make a difference in! When we trust God to go where we are called to go our fears fade and our boldness grows.
  2. WALK with God!
    • Nehemiah 2:11-18
    • When we walk with God it’s crazy how He allows us to be a light in the darkness. The darkness doesn’t make us afraid…it instead emboldens our vision is helps us to bring others alongside of us to accomplish things beyond us!
  3. WORSHIP God!
    • Nehemiah 12:27-30
    • When we trust God, walk with God it will ultimately lead to worship God! Our surrender in worship can lead to others seeing God for the first time!

Take Away:
How could Enthusiasm change the environment around you?

 

Have You Ever Ran into the day with Enthusiasm?

 

What are the differences between the times you did and didn’t live with enthusiastic faith?

 

Challenge:
Fight hard to go 3 days straight without a negative thought!
***If you get a negative thought you restart trying for 3 days straight!

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I’m Generous

Stay Positive #3 “I’m Generous”

One Thing we can all agree on in our lives is that we are all Greedy in at least one area of our lives…money, food, cars, clothes, forgiveness, sin! All of us struggle to break free from greed in our lives…yet when we see that greed is what kills what God wants to do in & through us then it’s so much easier to be generous! Yet, we often keep walking in the Cul-De-Sac of Generosity getting no where because we can’t see the greed we are blinded by!

3 Ways to Break Greed In Our Lives
John 6:1-14

  1. LOOK AT Jesus! (Look Up Like Jesus Did)
    • No matter what our Circumstance it all starts with Jesus being at the Center. When we look to Jesus the things, and trials, of this world seem small!
    • Generosity isn’t about bringing to Tithe to Jesus…that is His already…it’s about giving above what is already His. It’s helping a stranger in need, it’s forgiving that person though they haven’t asked for it.
  2. UNDERSTAND what Jesus WANTS! (Jesus Asks to Sit At His Feet and He Will Provide)
    • So Often we get caught saying it’s easy for them to give because they have all they need provided for…and isn’t that what our Father in Heaven does for us?
    • Jesus wants us to live a life that is fulfilled beyond measure, not so that we can get a bunch of stuff…but so that we can experience a heart full blessing, anticipation and life change.
  3. SURRENDER! (Just give what you have to Jesus)
    • When we surrender all that we have to Jesus it goes further than us, blesses more than we ever could and comes back to us abundantly more than we could ask or imagine
    • When we surrender control to Jesus…funny thing is we aren’t worried about results! The peace that comes from that far outweighs the stress of trying to do it all on our own.

Take Away:
What Areas of My Life Am I Being Greedy?

 

Would I Like to Be More Generous or Less Generous with God and Others? How?

 

Challenge:
Find A Way To Be Generous to One Person this week
***Just Ask God what He would have you give & watch what happens
Fight hard to go 3 days straight without a negative thought!
***If you get a negative thought you restart trying for 3 days straight!

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